During the last two years my wife and I have made a lot of changes. Mostly she made the changes, and then I would follow suit when I realized I had little choice. To be fair, Mindy is not a bossy woman, and doesn’t tell me what to do. On the other hand, she is going to follow her own path no matter what, and if I don’t follow the same path, she might just leave me behind. I am her fourth husband, after all, so her track record shows she won’t hesitate to dump me! Mindy joined the local gym, and I think she likes it more for the social aspect than the exercise. In any event, once she got hooked on going to the gym she has been there at least five days a week! Either for an hour-long yoga class, or to hang out for half the day, Mindy has started making the gym her home away from home. I have joined the gym, as well, for two different reasons. First, I really do need to get in better shape, so the classes and equipment at the gym will help me to help myself. Secondly, it will put me closer to Mindy and give us another way to bond and spend time together. Sharing interests is important for any couple, and if she is so interested in the gym, then I will do my best to share that with her. If I’m being honest, I am also doing it to keep an eye on her, because there are a lot of quality studs at the gym.